with Leán Bakker

tantra cape town


Consciousness is really just awareness. Being aware of what is of what is happening inside and around you. It is about observing your feelings, thoughts and intentions in every moment.

You can say this to yourself:
"I am pure consciousness. Every thought and feeling I have, has immense power. When I am sexually aroused, I am razor sharp. I choose to use this intensity to the benefit of myself and all that is."


To be present is to be fully in the moment. It also opens us up to a well of creativity.  Be authentic and sincere, fill every second with all of you. Be present to what is moving in you. Act from a place of authenticity.


Connecting to bliss is a gateway to living an orgasmic life. Forget about chasing goals. Surrender to every ounce of pleasure. This state will enable magic to unfold. The bliss we experience in our bodies is the key to unlocking bliss in our entire life.

Each one of us was created from sexual energy and it is through this energy that new life is created. This life-force is a spark in the eye, a lust for life and an ease of self-expression.



Our connection to our sexuality happens when we look within, when we re-establish a connection to our own bodies and our own emotions. It is easy to fall into the habit of allowing the mind to wonder. Connection to the body brings us home to ourselves. Moving the focus out of the busy thinking mind and into the landscape of the body, allows for a more whole-hearted connection to all that we are.


Part of awakening to ourselves again is to be able to receive touch, to feel safe enough to feel everything.  Through disconnect, abuse, hurt, trauma and shame our bodies can create armouring to protect us from feeling. Physical touch is a direct channel to re-connecting to the physical and emotional body. In turn the awareness to sensations inside the body can be used as a guidance system for following our truth in life.


That delicious feeling of sexual excitement can be spread throughout the entire body. Making the connection between  the heart, the eyes, the back of the neck - every cell in the body. It ignites the entire being. This feel-good force can ripple throughout the entire body in waves and waves of bliss. This energy can also be called Chi or Shakti flow. I see it as the energy that is experienced in full body orgasms and it can be felt by men and by women.


Find Your Pleasure . Life

This is my new course about energy orgasms. Also known as full body orgasms, energy orgasms, Shakti, chi or Kundalini.

This is a gift I am teaching from the knowledge of my body. I want as many people as possible to have access to the information.

This is a growing course and I will keep adding to the content. In the course I share my performance dances, talks and meditations.

The course is free, you only donate if you benefit from the course and if you get a full body orgasm!


A How-to Guide to being multi-orgasmic

I believe life want to burst into us in waves of orgasmic bliss. Our sexuality is a direct avenue to living a more conscious and blissful life.
This course is my own deeply personal account of realisations and awakening. I would describe this course as advanced, because I teach about:

  1. Full body orgasmic energy flow
    This section is applicable to both men and women as it deals with the flow of Shakti energy
  2. Orgasmic potential of the vagina
    Knowing about the awakened vagina, gives pointers to people who have vaginas and to people who love vaginas




Demonstration of a lingam massage:

In my bigger course about the orgasmic woman, I teach about the interaction between the vagina and the penis. I decided to make a smaller branch-off course, with the focus on the masculine. This course is very beneficial to people who making love to penises. It helps us to understand and love the masculine in a smindful and respectful manner

This mini online consists of video material on the topics of:

  1. Honouring the masculine (8 minutes)
  2. Lingam massage to know the vagina (21 minutes)
  3. Exploring the lingam (25 minutes)
  4. Moving life-force energy (10 minutes)
  5. shifting the consciousness of the blowjob (11 minutes)
  6. How I work with a male client's body
  7. Interviews with sexually awakened men


Tantra Sessions in Cape Town

A typical session is two hours long. Each client is unique and we work in a therapeutic, healing sphere or in an expanding manner.

What to expect in a one-on-one session:

Many male clients phone me to ask what a session will look like. In this video I give a broad explanation of my work approach.

One-on-One Session Prices:

Women (2 Hours): R1600

Women 4 session package: R5000

Male Session (2 Hours): R2500

Men's 4 session package: R 8000 


I work from Treatment room 1 at Rocklands Health and Movement Centre in Constantia, Cape Town.
The address is 14A Bel Ombre Road, Constantia


My life has been dedicated to being fully in my body. I started my career as a professional contemporary dancer. Later I became choreographer and performance artist; exploring the deep expressions the body can utter. Always feeling life flowing through my movements.  For more on my art, visit leanbakker.com

I studied Voice and Movement therapy where I explored expression of the emotions through voice, breath and postures. The body is always contracting and expanding with the soul.
For more about Voice Movement Therapy, visit: 

In 2018 I experienced a sexual awakening. What it brings to me is the awakening of the inner body energy flow.  Through years of body awareness, I am able to tune into waves of bliss in my entire body. Some call this kundalini awakening. For me it is simply feeling the divine in me, my connection to source through my body. My life work now is to translate this inner awakening to others. My approach is to communicate in a practical user-friendly way. My approach is not talk therapy, but rather working with the body through movement, voice and touch.



At the age of 49, I experienced a profound sexual awakening. What happened is that I became fully present with feeling my body. My whole body became alive to experiencing pleasure. The more I opened myself up to experiencing pleasure, the more it expanded.  The most life altering experience for me was when I became fully present within my vagina. It was like a long forgotten nerve suddenly connected and my consciousness spread into every single part of my femininity. This awareness snapped me out of victim mode and into an empowered participant in my relating and my attitude to life.

Shortly after my awakening I produced a performance video that describes what I am feeling inside my body. The best way for me to communicate this awareness, is to show the emotional and physical pleasure I am feeling as a multi-faceted woman.

Created during the Corona Virus Lock-down period. Notice the natural activation of shakti energy towards the end of the video.


Here I am demonstrating the flow of sexual energy. It is also called Shakti or Kundalini


This is a video about the flow of chi or orgasmic energy.



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