In this video, Leán, a sensuality coach based in Cape Town, shares what she looks for in a male lover. She emphasizes the importance of a man having confidence in his erection and the ability to control ejaculation, ensuring that it can be delayed and only happens by choice. Leán also highlights the need for a lover who can fully experience and express pleasure throughout his entire body, allowing for a shared experience of full-body orgasms.

She values a lover who is present in the moment, focusing on making the experience orgasmic rather than simply aiming for an end goal. Leán explains that she desires a man who understands the subtleties of his own genital sensations and recognises that a woman's vagina is a place of rich sensation, deserving of full attention and connection.

Additionally, she discusses the importance of eye contact, heart contact, and the ability to make energetic love, where both partners can feel and circulate pleasure throughout their bodies. Leán concludes by introducing an online course she offers, which teaches individuals how to master their bodies, enhance their pleasure, and connect more deeply with their partners

Sexual mastery for men - online course:
https://conscioussexuality.thinkific.com/courses/DragonMaster