Addressing men interested in learning to be better lovers, specifically discussing the issue of being "addicted to imagination" during lovemaking. They emphasise that it's normal and not shameful to let imagination run wild, as it happens to many, including professionals and clients. The main problem arises when this detracts from the present moment, making real-life lovemaking unsatisfactory.

To overcome this, the speaker suggests two approaches:

1. Presence: Strive to be fully present and mindful during lovemaking, focusing on the sensory experience.
2. Creative Imagination: Use imagination constructively to enhance presence by treating interactions as a playful, nonverbal communication or fairy tale, thereby making the experience more engaging and intimate.

Overall, the goal is to harness imagination to enrich and improve the sexual experience rather than letting it detract from reality